In our ever increasing, fast paced world we are inundated with constant stressors. Including your 24/7 ability to be in constant contact through technology and media. Gone are the 9 to 5 work days, replaced by stressful jobs, parenthood & volunteering with ever increased responsibilities. It is time to incorporate some form of stress management, relaxation and grounding technique that will allow you to take that much needed deep breath.

Designing Your Inspired Tech Relationship

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mobile phone zombiesIt is amazing to think back only twenty years to a time when technology was an imaginary ideal in sci-fi movies and shows. A time when Dr Spock had what looked similar to the flip phones that my teenagers currently carry.  In that twenty year period the ability of technology has unequivocally expanded beyond our wildest dreams while the reliance on technology with its bandwidth of possibility continues to increase.  It is becoming progressively more difficult to fully understand the scope of technological dependence that pervades our culture and lives. It is also important to examine what we are allowing into our lives through technology and what technology knows about our lives because we are inadvertently allowing it in.  These are important questions to contemplate to help find the support that technology can offer without being caught up in the anxiety that it can create.  Finding this balance is critical in living fully, joyfully and in harmony.

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It is important to ask the question, Is technology an appendage or a constructive tool in your life? This can be a hard question to answer for many because technology has infiltrated so much of our lives.  Adults, as well as children, have become hooked on cell phones, smart phones, iPads, iTouches, computers, TVs, reading devices, and other technological devices.  To fully understand your level of “connectedness” you might ask yourself, “What would happen if you left your phone off for an extended period of time?” Of course, ‘extended’ is relative.  To my grandfather, that might mean not picking it up, ever.  However, to my son, a few hours may seem like an eternity.  Our experience of time in relation to technology varies greatly.  Begin to notice where you are on the continuum and how much time you spend connected, plugged in and absorbed in the technological devices in your life.  What would it feel like to unplug for a portion of your day? Your reaction to this challenge gives you a big hint to your level of technological attachment and whether it is a tool or appendage.

The ramifications of the inundation and over stimulation of technology can affect young and old in many ways.  Three significant negative outcomes include:

First, the rates of obesity and diseases related to obesity are increasing daily because of the sedentary lifestyle that our culture has succumbed to and technology plays a key role in this dilemma.

Second, our lives have begun to mirror the pace of technology. Many feel a sense of overwhelm from the pressures of day to day living which is reflected in our need to multitask which diminishes our ability to be fully present in each moment and instead leaves one feeling frazzled.

Third, due to the speed and ability to communicate 24/7 one would assume that we are more efficient and effective.  Instead, the reality is that the increased exposure to stress on not only a daily basis but a minute to minute basis causes elevated levels of cortisol (the stress hormone) to course through our veins without relief.  This pressure cooker of stress effect that technological advancement has created produces stress and strain psychological and physically effecting performance, blood pressure, immunity and even weight.

For these reasons it is critical to give yourself time each day, each week and as much time each year to unplug and take a deep breath from the taxing stressors that technology exacerbates.

It is also fundamentally important to realize that each click is monitored by on-line stores.  Similarly, surveillance of your habits from trips made to brick and mortar establishments like big box chains or corporate pharmacies occur.  Your habits are tracked so that retailers can entice you to buy specific or similar products.  Marketers are hoping to help take the thinking out of your actions by creating habits that you are unconsciously being directed towards.  You can expand your awareness of these practices by fully noticing advertising such as coupons that are given to you at checkout or companies that automatically pop-up on your Facebook feed.  This ability of carefully crafted algorithms is based on monitoring your behavior with hopes of determining your future behavior. Noticing these tactics helps to place you in the driver’s seat giving you the ability to maneuver through life seeing and choosing your adventures on your terms.

Technology can be a supportive tool that helps you navigate through life. Gone unchecked, it can create anxiety, stress and cause adverse habits.  Being fully aware of all facets of your relationship with technology establishes a solid foundation that brings balance, joy and harmony to your life.

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Christa O'Leary

 

 

Inspired Wisdom From a 6th Grader

Inspired Words From a 6th Grader

Inspired Wisdom From a 6th GraderSometimes we are so busy in the daily to-do’s of parenting that we can miss the beautiful diamonds that stand before us as our children’s light  and inner knowing hold more wisdom than we give them credit. It is interesting that in our society the sacredness of the inherit wisdom of the soul found in our young is lost.  A jewel of wisdom shone brightly and caught my attention when asked to print out my 6th grader’s essay due to the lack of ink in the kids’ printer. I took a minute to glance over her words and was awe struck. Behind some grammatical errors were insights that many adults miss over a lifetime. Interesting that our young often hold the key to remembering the sacredness, curiosity and willingness to explore all aspects of life, including the openness to change that creates a more meaningful and Inspired experience on our life’s journey.

In Kiley’s words…

“To change is to pass from one state or condition to another. Moving to Hingham was a big change in my life. I used to live in Glastonbury, CT. My family and I lived in a big house, in a massive neighborhood with lots of kids to play with. It was the summer of 2009 which was the summer of third grade for me. It was an ordinary day on the beach and my parents were talking. They called my three siblings and I over and told us we were moving. Lots of things changed when we moved to Hingham.

“To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often.” is a famous Winston Churchill quote. In my whole life, I had never stepped foot in the town of Hingham. Now, I was driving down Main Street in search for a new place to call home. We had a very nice relator named Rosemary. The thought of buying a new house was exhilarating because I had lived in the same house my whole life. After looking at tons of houses we finally decided to move to Central Street. I started fourth grade at Foster School and loved it! My teacher was really great and I made lots of new friends. Hingham has a girls hockey team that I could play for. Also, my house is close to the town square and shops like Nona’s Ice Cream. I can walk there very easily now. I am much more social because there are lots of clubs and activities that I can get involved with. Those are a few things I wouldn’t be able to do if I still lived in Connecticut.

Benjamin Franklin once said, “When your finished changing, your finished”. My life changed in a positive way when my family moved to Hingham. I changed into a better hockey player because Hingham has better hockey teams. Also, I have become more social because Hingham offers more clubs, events, and activities that I can get involved with. I can be more active, I can bike and walk to many places like the Recreation Center. None of this could be possible if I hadn’t moved to this wonderful town!”

These words make me ask, how do I embrace change and when has change had a powerfully profound & positive impact in my life? I am thankful for the many conscious awarenesses that came from this essay. It gave me the opportunity to witness the insight and inherit wisdom a 6th grader can hold and the diamond jewels of knowledge that can shine so brightly from within if we are willing to look, listen and acknowledge.  It also gave me the opportunity to look at how I embrace change in my own life.  Change allows growth, opportunity and inspiration into our lives. Can you see the gems of light and growth in your life?

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